The Art of Pursuing Women

Among all my clients, there’s a unique group who seek my advice on how to pursue girls—specifically for long-term, stable relationships. I genuinely want to help them solve problems.

Now, let me be honest: for most women, jumping into intimacy isn’t something that happens quickly or easily. Sure, I might be the "bad girl" type who’s willing to exchange companionship for cash—different rules apply in my world. But for the majority of women, they’re looking for serious, meaningful connections—and that takes time, effort, and a touch of finesse.

For instance, one of my clients noticed an attractive woman at the gym. He was smitten and asked for my advice on how to approach her. The first thing I had to clarify was his intention—was he looking for a hookup or something serious? He assured me it was the latter, so I advised him to approach with patience and sincerity. 

Here’s what I told him: relationships aren’t built overnight. Start small. Ask her out for coffee—it’s casual, non-threatening, and shows, I’m interested, but I’m not a creep. If she’s comfortable and enjoys your company, then you can take it up a notch with a proper dinner date. And—this is critical—do not, under any circumstances, make sexual advances during the first few meetings. Nothing makes a woman run faster than a guy who skips the steps and goes straight to “what’s under your gym leggings?”

As you spend more time together and build rapport, something magical can happen—chemistry! Once mutual feelings develop, that’s when it becomes appropriate to take things to the next level. But even then, make sure she’s ready and that your intentions are genuine. Show her that you’re committed and willing to take care of her. 

Now, for those gentlemen who are just seeking one-night stands or non-committed relationships—here’s my honest advice: just hire an escort like me. There’s no need to drag someone else through unnecessary emotional turmoil. Most women want more than just physical intimacy; they’re seeking emotional depth and meaningful connections. If they feel used or deceived, it can lead to lasting emotional damage.But with us escorts, it’s a whole different ballgame. We actually appreciate clients who aren’t too clingy and understand the rules of engagement. 

Finally—and this is the golden rule—whether you’re looking for a casual hookup or a serious relationship, always lead with respect. A bad experience leaves a lasting impression, and trust me, women usually have excellent memories. If you make it onto someone’s blacklist for being disrespectful, you’re likely to stay there forever.