New Money, Old Dreams: Finding Peace and Purpose
I’ve always loved watching Broadway shows. One of my regular clients is a theatrical director, and through our conversations, I’ve gained a deeper appreciation for musicals. Every time I see an inspiring show, the joy stays with me for months.
Just last month, I watched The Great Gatsby musical. While I’ve always been fond of the film starring Leonardo DiCaprio, seeing it live on stage was a completely different, immersive experience. The music was especially moving and impressive.
Gatsby himself embodies the American Dream—rising from humble beginnings through difficult paths, driven by his desire for wealth, status, and the fulfillment of his dream. You see, it’s never easy to go from rags to riches, and many who do have their secrets. In the end, Daisy, the woman he loves, chooses a more practical life, leaving Gatsby behind. It may seem harsh, but it’s a reality many face.
It’s interesting to note that the only group that sometimes resists "new money" is often the old guard—the established elite with deep-rooted interests. Families with old money tend to focus on preserving their legacy and reputation, often making significant donations to museums and cultural institutions to reflect their values. The rise of new wealth can feel like a challenge to their status.
As for me, I'm slowly becoming part of the "new money" through a job that some may judge. Sharing what I do sometimes invites criticism. Will I regret it one day? Maybe, far down the road. But right now, this job brings me fulfillment, and I truly enjoy it. Dwelling on the past can lead to sadness, and obsessing over the future only breeds anxiety. The best thing we can do is live fully in the present moment.
There are times when I receive harsh or uncomfortable messages—people telling me I shouldn’t be doing this work or sending demeaning comments if I decline to meet. In the beginning, it hurt, but I’ve learned to ignore them. You can’t please everyone, and that’s okay. What matters is that there will always be those who see and appreciate you for who you are.
And I’ve come to realize that it’s less about the judgment of others and more about finding what nourishes your soul and spirit. Everyone is entitled to their own choices, but ultimately, we’re the ones who live with the consequences and rewards of the life we choose. Embracing this mindset has allowed me to focus more on what brings me peace and less on societal expectations.
